But you have to improve your marriage behavior if you want success. The first reaction in your mind, when you make such a harsh threatening discovery is going to be self-protective, accompanied by fear; these are primal.
Third, your marriage is not over, unless you choose it to be. You must change your behaviors of thought, feeling, speech, and actions. Reading a book or two, even one of mine, will likely not be enough. When you discover your husband is using online dating sites you will automatically assume the worst, imagining he is following through, and meeting other women. That is probably not happening, but it is not too late for your marriage, even if he is.
Online dating has jumped among adults under age 25 as well as those in their late 50s and early 60s.
But the female profile had a flurry of requests from potential partners.
During our interactions, the reasons the men shared with us for cheating ranged from boredom, to an inactive sex life and even general intimacy issues.
But that doesn’t seem to have hampered its success rate.
In a bid to understand what it is that leads married men and women in India to cheat on their partners, we decided to interact with some firsthand.